Girls Flaking on the Phone (by Cro)

This and many more tactics can be found in the June 2008 Edition of the PUA Field Guide

I use a tactic that some of you would frown upon when first thinking about it, but it works a lot for me. If I haven't built any real comfort, and she is flaking on me on the phone, I throw a negative frame around her 'making her a social violator' (credit Lovedrop).

Let's script it...
Her: I'm busy tonight. I have to work.
Me: That's alright, I'll let you make it up to me.
Her: Oh how so?
Me: I'm free this friday...after seven though, and then Saturday
afternoon. You better not flake on me again, because I'm busy
the week after and I will be taking you out.

At this point, I've thrown it out there that I'm a high value guy that she can't throw off like she does with AFCs. She tried to IOD me, but I refused to accept it because I'm a fun, cool guy. However this statement must be presented correctly, and you don't want to be seen as just stubborn on the phone and creepy, you have to be laughing and fun and keeping her happy emotions spiked at all times.

Now there are three ways she might respond from where I left off:

1)
Her: I don't know, I'm busy on....
Me: You know, don't sweat it! I'm going to this cool party on Saturday evening...come to think of it, if you promise not to embarrass me I'll take you with me!

Here she tried to disarm you again, but you brushed it aside and asked her to qualify. If she does Qualify at this point, you've sparked attraction again and raised BT and you can continue stacking.

2)
Her: Well...I think Saturday is okay..
Me: Good, (serious) but I can't stay long so (humorous) you better not flake on me!
Her: Haha! Alright!

3)(Best case scenario)
Her: Friday sounds good
Me: Oh wait....no it's alright, Friday it is. Oh you better wear a coat then. *stack*

This is when I have a gut feeling about a girl, and I know she's attracted but I haven't built comfort and THAT is why she is flaking.

This probably will not work if there's no real attraction.