11/18/09

For shits and giggles - Old, old reports

Oh yes, I decided to dig up some really old Field Reports from when I was starting out, dating from 2006 - 2007, instead of many posts I'll just post them here together, I hope you enjoy

FR: Bad juggling, or a fresh start?
I think I've never screwed things up as much as recently with the women in my life, I should start at the beginning.

After playing the game for a while, I wanted to try and see if I could actually just find a LTR and stick to it, I had grown tired of the whole PU scene and being called slut by my female friends. So one night I met this HB9 while I was out trying to win back my ex from a year earlier. Things weren't going anywhere with the ex, so I rolled off and went to the HB9.

She opened me up, no surprise she had been sending me IOI's across the table all evening, and we hit it off, later that night I stole a mistletoe from the ceiling and put it over her head and kissed her. I pretty much had her after that, until she got sick from partying all night with me and just wanted to go home and sleep. So I number closed her.

Week later I call her and get her to meet me downtown for some more partying, and after doing my cocky funny routine most of the evening, and throwing in negs at her and DHV'ing, we went to her place where I F-closed her 3 times.
After that I actually realized this girl was cool, and I cuddled for the first time in ages. We ended up staying awake all night talking and kissing, for me it was a new routine since I usually just do the ONS, but this felt good so I decided to give this a shot.

We met the following days and dated with the occasional kissing, but nothing more she wanted to take things slower this time and I was alright with it...I was finally ready to stop the PU, but I guess we're addicted..

She left a few days later to be with her family for a week.

While she was gone I met a girl at a party, and she sits next to me while I'm on the phone and doesn't know anyone, she was about HB8, but had the naughty sexuality of a HB10, dressed like a schoolgirl.
I grabbed the phone and told her to wait, I would be right with her and winked.
There I had already opened her and locked her in, so when I stopped talking on the phone I engaged her and introduced myself and then went and got me a drink, just me. Leaving her to get her own drink. I prefer starting off with a good neg.

So that night she kept me engaged in conversation all night and kept coming closer and closer, I kept leaning away letting her work for my attention and she did, until she was almost begging me to kiss her with her eyes, but then I just dragged her to the dancefloor. I felt guilty for wanting to Kiss close and eventually F-close her.

So we danced and she started getting more and more sexual on the dancefloor, until she dragged me away and pushed herself against me and kissed me. And I admit, I kissed back. And then I grabbed her hair (thanks phase evo shift) and tugged on it hard and kissed her, she trembled at that point and I was too engaged in my PUgame that I stopped thinking about my LTR and took her to the taxi and we drove to her place, when we got there I finally had a change of heart and told the taxi driver to wait, while I walked her to her door. When we got there she tugged my shirt to get me in, but I stopped and told her sorry, I couldn't. And told her I had someone else I was dating but had a great time with her tonight, she responded with grabbing my jeans and pulling me in for a kiss and begging me to come in with those naughty eyes. I almost did, but I just kissed her, number closed and left.

She was pissed.

I went home with blue balls and mentally kicking myself, then she started texting me, pissed that I wasn't there f'ing her. Then she called, and was moaning....and started having phonesex with me while she played with herself. I was just too stunned and didn't hang up until she finished and promised to F me later.

Took me a while to get over the guilt, but I met my HB9 LTR again and things were good, just going slower than I'm used to. But heck, she was worth it.
Then a few days passed and she was out of town again, and then a HB10 girl I know calls me(lets call her M), and it's obvious she was drinking and tells me she's single. And wants me to come.

I lead her on, thinking this is just a bit of fun and we talk about what I should do over there, and she tells me to bring a friend for another HB10(we call her B)...that just happens to be my ex I mentioned in the start of this post. Because M wanted me for herself.

I take the bait and call my wing and we go over.

That night, I pull a good routine of cocky funny on them both, while my wing keeps M occupied and I just talk to B, my ex. Until M get's too jealous and pulls me away.

We all go downtown to party and later my wing gets tired and needs to leave and offers to drop B off, so that leaves me and M the HB10. I do my favorite kiss close, the evo phase shift I learnt from Style. And it works like a charm.
That night I go to her place and F-close her, after stopping in the kitchen for a drink, then the lounge for a talk. (Building comfort).

The morning after I leave sheepishly, knowing my LTR would freak out if she knew and I just go home and think about my options. Then it dawns upon me that I am going to a party the day after...with M the girl I just slept with, and my LTR.
So I freak, and after thinking it through I call M and smooth talk her into being just sex buddies. And told her I was meeting a girl at the party tonight. That was also a very good DHV.

So I go to the party with my LTR and everything is good. I saved the day.

Week after I go out and meet both M and B again, this time my LTR is not with me, and I take a seat in a sofa with those two to my right and left, and I got the most awesome Social Value that night, because they were both trying to work me. Two HB10's, one of them my ex and one a girl I slept with a week before. I talk to my ex a bit, trying to gauge her reaction when I mention her current boyfriend, and she mentions he feels very threatened because of me.

Well I leave that night without doing anything and go home, the next night however I hear from my LTR and she's feeling distant and cold, so....I call M.
We party and I f-close her again, both knowing it's just casual and even more sexy because it's secret.

So now I hear that B, the ex is talking about me more and more to M, wondering if she made the right choice in leaving me....so I decided next week to try Tyler Durdern's boyfriend dump thing, seems promising. I guess it could work for me.

My LTR is well, as of tonight over. And I still have M and B following me around, and I also got a text from the HB8.

I fucked up real good with the only woman I wanted, but while focusing on her, I opened up my game to a string of hotties I can play with for a while.

Win and lose I guess.

Next, I plan on stealing my ex from her current Beta boyfriend. This will be fun.

Afterthought, now I laugh at my old HB rating scale, and why I rarely use that in my report anymore. Those girls aren't 10s they are 8.5 and a 9 at best. Shows really how your standards change the better you get at this
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FR: Worst night ever
Ok so I royally fucked up last night, my head was just not in the game...and I feel embarrassed. Not because I looked bad or anything in my game, but I let myself down.

Ok I went to this party, sporting a straw hat (hat theme) and wearing my bowling shoes(brilliant peacock, girls love talking about them).

I sit down with the main crowd to gain some social status and make sure to be noticed, get a few pictures taken of me, just letting chicks now I'm here and not shy.

Then I meet the girl I was dating, and she flaked on me so I just kissed her on the cheek like friends do and blew her off for someone else, DHV'ing myself.

So I decided to start sarging, so I walk up to this cute blond and sit down opposite her with this big grin on my face, she smiles and opens me up. I use some opener on how I should wear the hat. I build comfort, I do the non compliance test while doing the number routine...the girl fucks it up by saying "3" immediately after I told her not to tell me. So I do it again with 1-10, and I say seven while holding her hands, she says no and I let go and tell her that was definite proof that ESP does not work. She laughs....I freeze. I completely froze at that point. I had no idea what to say, thankfully we get interrupted and she goes out for a smoke with her friend, which leads me to neg "yuck...that makes you smell bad" and she walks away.

So I decide to open a two set, one being a girl I really want to sleep with, and the other I have no idea who is. Both HB9's.

I open them up with my hat, and they laugh and help me adjust it. I make a remark about hands off, they laugh and since they are sitting, I crouch down to make them more comfortable and I froze again.

Now as I write this, I have hundreds of lines going through my head I could have used, and I am not a shy guy, not at all....but I was just at a loss.
And after trying to save me with AFC lines (schooltalk), they stand up and tell me they're going to walk around the room.

I stand like a beta AFC and have no idea what just happened.

Ever had a night like this when nothing works?

Afterthought, these things happen once in a while, and they shouldn't affect you, but I remember how that event fucked my state up and I was a broken toy soldier after that, for a few days - Silly old me
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FR: Hitting the town
Me: Dressed up in nice jeans, leather shoes, black tight fitting button down shirt with a red Armani tie and a tailored suit jacket.

Scene: Annual ball with the Uni political party I'm in.

My frame, was looking good and having a great time and most certainly NOT sarge. My female friends that I love like family have been telling me that I'm too involved in sarging and picking up girls, that I'm neglecting them when we meet. ....well I tried.

After dinner is served and speeches held and nominations and such, we break up in groups and start drinking. Since I planned on not sarging, I started drinking heavily and just having fun. I automatically start triggering pre-selection because there's an ex-pLTR/'it's complicated'. But I wasn't going to game because my friend asked me to be her date to this thing.

Dancing starts, she hooks up with her boytoy, so I think what the fuck, let's sarge and chug the beer and decide to sarge drunk tonight. I get another beer and then hit the dancefloor, again another sarging taboo but I was thinking what the hell. I'm comfortable dancing anyway and I'm good at it.

Insert HB8, sleeveless tight and I mean tight dress.

I'm dancing with the group and she comes in on my right side and after 3 seconds I glance over at her and say "cute dress, I have one just like it"
She turned to me and smiled brightly, then totally disarmed me by coming closer and asked "cool, where did you buy it?"

I was at such a lack of words, because I've used many variations of this opener, but never been called out like that. I just shook my head and laughed, saving face and failing the shit-test obviously, but saved it by reframing and just laughing about while scolding her playfully for ruining that for me. It worked and she was pulled in after that.

Everyone was dancing at that point and the mood in the room was great, my frame: I rock.

I give her a little attention, but not too much. I'm not flipping enough attraction switches, so I grab my friend's hand and whisper in her ear, "grab me" and she immediately knows what to do, she's my Pivot and she knows the plan.
She throws herself at me, her hands around my neck and starts giggling and bringing attention to me. I take her hands and spin her in the direction of HBDress and pull her back in, we dance for a moment until HBDress comes back in and starts dancing close to me, my pivot grins at me and then returns to her boytoy.

I start gaming HBDress with body language mostly since we can't really talk this close to the speakers, she starts grinding me to check my reaction and I decide to pull a cocky and turn around, unaffected by her charm. We dance back to back, then shoulder to shoulder, building some comfort-kino.
After a few minutes she pulls out her camera and starts taking pictures of everyone and me, and I immediately stack into the photo routine, telling her to take pictures of us serious, happy, in love. In that order. And she loved it, those pics are on her facebook now.

I notice she's mimicking my moves to a degree, so I start testing it...and see she's doing what I do, looking to me for guidance. So this is when I came up with a new concept, well new to ME....dance floor compliance test. It worked real well for me.

A guy comes in, starts copying my routines and cock-blocking me, I just AMOG him out by being the big dog on campus, nothing spectacular there because it was too easy.

I need a breather, so I put my finger on her cute little nose and tell her to wait here, then walk away without looking back. It was a gamble, put it paid off.

When I get back, we dance more and I start building comfort with her, a small fluff talk mixed with DHV and attraction. It's so on.

The ball ends, and my wings arrive just then to join me because I was in uber sarge mode and wanted to hit the town. We get our jackets and head out, it's snowing. I speak with my wings, then HBDress walks out in her coat and the Beta cockblock is with her, I wink at her and she comes over to me and we start walking downtown, I put my elbow out, and she latches on. The beta was done at that point.

We go to a club I just started working at, and so the social proof is easy there. I know a lot of people, and the regulars too. I split from my wings as they need to go elsewhere to meet someone for an hour so I wait there. HBDress starts feeling uncomfortable, starts texting and standing around, the Beta is back and standing with her while I went to the big boys room, she said she wanted to go to the other club where the majority of our friends went, so I tell her to go and #-close her and get a hug.

I meet friends B and E at the bar, we have a beer and talk, my pivot and her boytoy come too and we all talk for a while. A 2-pair approaches the bar and I immediately spin my chair like it's spontaneous and open with an "hey, I need an opinion real quick, my friend here" I say and motion for my buddy sitting next to me, "is thinking about getting back together with his ex, but the thing is she cheated on him 2 years ago, and now tells him she's a changed person and wants him back....should he trust her? I don't want my friend hurt again"

They are a pair of HB5 and HB7.5, they take the bite and I run the topic for a while, focusing on the HB5 and when the other one tries to get attention I neg her with "wow, you're so rude...I'm trying to talk to your friend here" while wearing a big grin, she just laughs and responds "I'm not rude!" trying to qualify herself. So I put my arm around her and pull her in like we're buddies and say "You're such a brat like my little sister, I'm totally adopting you!" which led to a lot of giggles from them both. I was running a smooth set and my friends were jealous because I was unintentionally DLV'ing them by turning my back to them for so long. So I lean back at the bar, opening the set to allow my friends in and also making it appear the girls are gaming me, they lean in to talk to me. It was golden, I receive a text at that point from a HB9 I'm gaming but have yet to f-close, telling me to meet her at another club. So I #close both girls and make them pinky swear to call me if they find a cool party later.

I walk over to the next club, and walk past the line being friends with the doormen having worked with them before, I walk in like I own the place and try calling her, but no answer. So I walk for a few minutes, looking for her. But nothing, so I ring my wings and they are coming to meet me and I tell them to meet me outside this club, I walk out and talk to them, and we head over to a grocery store to get some food, in there I see a JB9.5 but decide to open her anyway for fun, doesn't lead anywhere, she's not attracted. Her boyfriend comes and they leave.

I walk outside and someone yells my name, it's the HB9 standing in line infront of the club I was supposed to meet her in 20 minutes earlier. I walk over, scold her for not picking up and give her a FTC, she gives me puppy eyes and then I tell her I have to go with my friends to party and I was going to go for a hug, but decide to kiss her instead and grab her and give her a kiss and walk away, not looking back.

Me and my wings go to a fancy lounge type bar, and have one beer while talking. I get an IOI from the HG at the bar, but instead of going down that risky path I get a hickup...my frame collapsed. I felt all eyes on me and I tried to chug the beer to make it stop, in about 3-4 minutes it did and I noticed these smoking hot HB9's sitting across from the bar and looking our way, my wings had already opened some other set while I was curing my hickups hehe, so I walk over to them alone and kneel down infront of them and open with "Girls...I need an honest answer right now, who lies more, men or women?". They looked so bored before I approached them, like men were too intimidated by their hotness to approach and no one was talking to them, so when I asked them their whole attitude changed and they smiled and we got into a great convo about that topic, my frame was back and stronger than ever. I don't bother calling my wings in, I had them both eating from my hand and my wings were busy elsewhere. I tell them I need to leave, I order them to whip their phones out and tell them my number and tell them I'm looking for an afterparty and I want them to call me if they are adventurous and wanna party more. They comply and then ask me to take their numbers.....I love it when they beg :P

We leave and walk over to another club, we get in line and open some girls there, they were drunk and not following the threads, so thankfully HBDress taps my shoulder, had been walking past and saw me in the queue. She hugs me and tells me she's heading home, my friends see I want to isolate so I slip out of the queue and talk to her, I tell her I'm walking her to a cab and she slips her hand in mine and we start walking, my wings follow at a distance. when we reach the spot, I slip on ice on the road and fall down harshly, messing up my hand. She helps me up and is all worried about me and wondering if I'm okay, I play the sympathy card just a little. She's into me, so I drop it and continue with comfort and tell her I'll be alright. Then I take her hands and look her in the eye and tell her "you are really beautiful, but beauty is common...what else have you got ?"

She smiles and thinks for a moment, then tells me she's really smart and a nice person. I tell her I'll take it under consideration, then she gets a cab and prepares to leave so I tell her "kiss me goodbye....do you know how they do it in France?" then I point to my cheek, and she kisses it, then the other cheek, then the lips. She looks at me wanting more, but my hand is really bothering me so I can't hold this cool frame for much longer so I ask her "are you going to call me?" she smiles and says yes, she wants to talk to me again. So I grin and say "good" then walk away.

When me and my wings reach the corner I grab my hand and whine like a baby hehe, so we went home after that.

Result: Lovely night, lots of interaction. A few new numbers, a few new faces and two k-closes.

(UPDATE)
Today, sunday, I log onto Facebook and see a friend request from HBDress. I accept it, and if you guys know how Facebook works, you can edit in info how you know this friend. I selected "is my spouse" and "we hooked up:" and said there "we got married on a mountain and there were flutes and angels!"

Then I just did nothing until now, 7 hours later
Me: Thank for adding me, my beautiful wife
Her: Aww thank you! I love how beautiful and sweet our wedding was!
Me: I know, I've always wanted to get married on a mountain top, hey what were your wows again?
Her: My wows? Damn, was I supposed to remember those? I just wrote them on a piece of paper that I then burned after the ceremony on top of the mountain...
Me: You love me that much, eh..?
Her: Doesn't say anything about my love for you, just that I'm not one for saving my wows, I don't need those to show you my love for you
Me: Smooth, you say that to all the guys?
Her: I didn't marry the other guys
Me: Lucky me right
Her: Oh yes!

I ended on:

Me: I'm was going to sleep, we will talk again later.....and have my dinner and beer ready for me when I come home tomorrow night. (I had stopped roleplaying earlier in the night, so it was time to bring it back)
Her: I have a class late, but I can have dinner ready at 8:30...is that alright?
Me: Of course my dear, see you then....kiss kiss
Her: Goodnight my love..
Me: Night sweetheart

Afterthought, I still use that roleplaying gambit, still works as callback humor/emotional connection for a day2
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FR: Beer night at the pub
I arrive at the pub alone, my wing bailed on me. I walk in and immediately gain some social value by being greeted by 8 different sets and the barstaff, I make myself noticed and smile.

I walk over to the bar and talk to a couple of friends, B and E. I order a beer and then leave my friends and walk over to a mixed 6-set of friends and people I know. I open the set and join the convo which was being led by another guy, I try and steal the thread, but no deal. He's too great a storyteller but I didn't mind since I like the guy. So I just listen and converse with some of the people at the table. A HB7 at the table gives me an IOI with a cute smile and I open her with the "slow down you nymph, I barely know you" opener and she laughs and I stack from there on, mostly being cocky-funny until she goes out to smoke and instead of joining her I eject and go back to the bar to meet my friends and order me another beer, I talk to the HG9 at the bar for a while and then leave her and spot a 2set of a HB7.5 and a HB8. The HB7.5, let's call her HBPsych, being a psych major, I already f-closed but then after she became to needy, I let her go. And decided to check her mood.

I walk over and sit down, facing the HB8, grinning like an idiot and open her with "So which one are you, she's always talking about her friends"

They both laugh and the HB8 introduces herself and extends her hand, I take it and shake it firmly while holding eye contact and I can see the IOI in her eyes and smile and at this point I have yet to even acknowledge HBPsych. She tries to interrupt, so I look at the HB8 and say "is she always like this when you go out, do you never get to speak?".

The HBPsych hits me playfully and laughs, so I turn my chair to face them both and start stacking. After 20 minutes they want to go out to smoke and I refuse to go with them, since I don't smoke and it was cold outside. They ask me to wait for them, and I just leave and sit with my friends again, they come back and wave me over, but I just sit with my friends a little longer. 15 minutes later I rejoin them and they open me, so I just go along with it. I end up sitting with them most of the night, kino escalating with the HB7.5 but showing HB8 the most attention, because I was actually interested in her studies and she liked telling me.

My friends from the bar join us and we all talk, until B leaves and E stays and we all decide to go to HB7.5's place and party. E starts hitting on my target and I stop him and tell him to take the other one and he complies and starts gaming her, a real AFC game. I had to refrain from telling him what he was doing wrong.

Before we leave I notice a HB9 I have been gaming walks in and talks to the barstaff, (we're all friends, having tended the same bar before). I leave the set and walk over to her and she hugs me and kisses me on the cheek, my open set sees this so I decide what the hell, I can squeeze more jealousy out of this and sit down with the HB9. She opens me and starts talking non stop so I just go with it and start leading the conversation to why she never called me the other night, she tells me she is so sorry but she had to work (actually true so I didn't bust her balls about it) and I tease her that she now has a few chances left before I give up on her completely and make her pinky swear to call me this weekend.
I sit closer to her as she takes her laptop and logs onto her myspace account and starts showing me her pictures, of her, her family, etc. (At this point I was wondering if I was being played with the photo routine lol ). I took all of this as comfort building and I made sure to kino escalate appropriately and she was very receptive to it all, and when it came to leave for HB7.5's place, I eject from the HB9 and tell her to kiss me goodbye and she kisses me on the lips right infront of the set I was in.

When we get to her place, we all sit in the small sofa and drink beer and listen to music, I just lean back chilling while E starts kino escalating to the point HB8 gets uncomfortable and calls a taxi to go home and sleep, he leaves with her.
My target starts getting buyer's remorse and it kinda took me by surprise because that has never happened to me before, I've had LMR before at this stage, but never remorse. She starts telling me that she really likes me, but doesn't want to do more because she's afraid to get more involved because she knows she's not what I want in the long run. Tell me I can spend the night, but nothing more.
Took all my LMR skills to break her down, but I manage to get her in bed and f-close her. (after doing every LMR routine I had for almost 15 minutes)

End result: Good night, had lots of fun. F-closed a tiger in bed with dirty talk involved, gained some on the other HB9 and plan on f-closing her this weekend if possible.
Didn't open enough sets, but had a great time over all.

Afterthought, why the hell was I giving women MY number and telling them to call me? Guess it worked a few times, but he past couple of years I tell women to give me their numbers, no asking or hoping. Sheesh
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FR: Party
This night was shit, I've never spent so much time in A3 in sarge history. There was no choice of targets, so I wanted to practice my stacking ability.

It's a saturday night, I arrive at my friend's place from high school and we sit down chatting, catching up since most of us haven't seen each other for weeks, so we all sit around and talk and have fun. Then the chicks arrive, and I decide to ignore them completely.

So the party starts, and things are going great. Everyone is having a great time, I decide not to sarge even though I feel lonely and want someone to share my bed tonight. The night continues and we play a drinking game where I don't really pay attention since I keep getting text messages from a HB7 and HB8 I've been gaming, but the night seems to be on a roll.

The doorbell rings, and I walk over to the front door and just pull it open and don't look at who's coming and walk away back to my seat, laughing at chatting with my buddies.

When I sit down I notice that the girl that just came in is a HB9 with this great smile that I just wanted so bad! I decide, finally a girl I can sarge.

I get up and get a new beer and start talking to a friend, and tell him I need him to wing me later to get an obstacle out of the way(the HB9 had a friend that was always with her). So I start telling him what to do and he says "'oh...you know the game" and we actually find out that we both know the Mystery method, so we plan openers and stacking material and I tell him what I have planned, just at that time she girl stands up and walks to the bathroom next to where we are standing, so I grab her shirt very dominantly and ask "hey...me and my friend here are wondering....is khaki a color or a fabrik?" and run that routine for a few minutes while she stands infront of the bathroom talking to us, and she tells us she doesn't know, so I respond with "so...you're just cute, I thought you were cute AND smart, but I guess you just have looks!"

She qualifies herself "I AM smart!" and laughs, she hooks perfect. But it's obvious she needs to pee, so I push her away "go pee, find us later" and we walk away.

Later on she walks past so my friend grabs her and runs the "floss teeth cleaning gambit" and I chime in, laughing and making her redeem herself after not knowing the khaki answer and I neg her more and let her go. Wanted to be able to open her later when I was not standing in front of everyone.

I decide my friend makes a great wing and we decide to work together this night, since he's my first friend that knows the routines, so he tells me.."ok man, I'm going in to talk to her....I'll stay 15 seconds, then come after my opener and I'll intro you with a huge DHV story, and I leave to change the song on the computer and I won't come back"

I agree and start talking to a friend while counting down, then I pretend to notice him and walk over smiling and kneel down, and he grabs me, puts his arm around me and goes "Oh this is my buddy...coolest dude ever! He actually took me skydiving on his birthday on Spain! Oh hey, I need to change the song...this guy is awesome, keep him busy for a while okay?"

So he walks away and the girl comes over to me and wants to know EVERYTHING about the skydiving, so I use my improv skills and make up a huge story, she takes it all in and loves the story, so I continue to DHV and she gets into the doggy eyes routine and I pull her over to a couch and run some routines, her friend comes over and I run the 'best friends' routine on them and they love it! When I tell them that best friends always look at each other before answering, they do just that and I crack up and hug them both and they start giggling when they realize that I was right so I get her friend talking and ignore my target for a while and she's surprised, not sure why I'm not chasing her.

Her friend start taking pictures of us, so I grab the camera and stack into the photo routine taking happy/sad/in love pictures of us...at this point I'm with the two hottest girls at the party and all my friends are giving me a look like 'how the hell...' while they try to be all cool and attractive and not getting the attention! (I love naturals with no game) and the girls love my company, I stack into more best friends, telling them about social interaction and how I can read people. I keep her interested for a while.

I get her to introduce me properly to her friend and she tells me her friend's name and I shake her hand dominantly, and my target asks "so what about me? don't you want my name?"

To which I respond, 'no....stop pushing me, we just met' with a grin and she laughs. After a few minutes I allow her to tell me her name, and she says Emma. I stop and look at her funny, she wants to know what it is.
I tell her I hate that name, and she laughs and goes "WHYYYY?"

I stack into the ex girlfriend model routine and that she was so shallow I dumped her.

I go into negging and playful teasing, I don't actually remember what I said but it was fun and playful. I go get a new drink and she follows, so I mix her a new drink and she loves it and I tell her I'm a bartender, a DHV and she loves it. I lose her after this, because her needy friend comes and pulls her away. My wing sees my signal and pulls the friend away again, and I isolate again!

Me and my friend decide to go downtown, so this girl we managed to pick up earlier says she will drive, so I decide to go in for the #-close and she tells me to hurry and she and my friend go outside to warm the car up.

I go back inside and kneel next to my target and tell her

Me: Alright...are we going to party tonight?
Her: No...I think I'm going home (IOD)
Me: Oh man you suck, here I thought you were cool and all
Her: I am cool !! (qualification)
Me: Obviously not, you are not going to meet me tonight
Her: I know....I can't, I just flew here from tonight and I haven't slept.....and I have a boyfriend
Me: I don't care about that! We just need to party(said this like I didn't care, but I know I should have gone with a better response)
Her: Alright...we can do that later
Me: okay...for easter, you and me....are going fucking crazy! Hey, get your phone out! (I knew at this time she was not going to give me her number and she loves her boyfriend)
She does and I punch my number in and pinky swear her to call me during easter to party.

I roll off with my friend and go home alone......tonight sucked, even thought I did my first sarge with a real wing. and a wing I like, he's good even thought I didn't close at all! I feel a bit ashamed, but still don't care since I know I'm better than that. The girl was mine for a long time but I didn't manage to get into C1, she really must love her boyfriend....and hey, I respect that.

............I need to f-close tomorrow to save this weekend

Afterthought, I guess I didn't do anything wrong with that set, as I remember it I was the king of the world that night. Sometimes they just lead you on all night, even feel attracted and let you win them over, but in the end, the boyfriend at home wins.

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