4/20/08

FR: Facebook meet

Time/Date
**Saturday evening, 19th April**

Location
English Pub, Hresso, B5, Solon

Logistics
Wing, and AFC friends


What went down
Started the night at English pub to get an energy drink since my state was down, was feeling tired after a long day at work. Stood in line with my "wing".
HG10: Who next?
Me: That would be me, two Cults please. Put it on my tab.
HG10: Sure thing. ::winks and hands me the drinks::

Instant social proof as the girl next to me at the bar opens me.

HB8: Don't you hate it when girls just try and get in front of you at the bar?
(what the hell? no one did that...she was just looking for something to say to me, so I smile)
Me: Girls are never rude to me.
She opens up her BL and turns towards me...however people start to push against my back, so I back off my game and decide to eject soon.
HB8: So you're just a nice guy, no one wants to be mean to you? ::winks::
Me: No, just girls don't act rude towards me. Why would they? ::smile and start walking away, she turns to look after me and says something but I don't hear it as someone pushes me to get to the bar and we go outside laughing to have our drink::

I finish my drink and am feeling pumped! I look sharp, I'm wearing boot cut jeans, black leather shoes, white t-shirt, unbuttoned tight fitting black shirt and my engraved army tags. Along with leather wristbands and rings.

I know I look hot.

We head over to Hresso to meet a few friends for shits and giggles while we wait for my main wing to meet us. I get a text. "Hey cutie, I'll be at Solon in like half an hour..meet me?"
It's from HBFacebook, a girl I tried a little online game with and hooked her a week earlier and #-closed.
"I might drop by later if you promise to behave yourself" I respond.

She texts back a few moments later as we enter Hresso, "I always behave Wink"
I feel pumped.

We enter Hresso and I do my eye routine, I walk through the whole club, staring down every guy and smiling at every woman, then take a leak, and return to my friends. I get a lot of smiles on my way back.
There's a drunk gold digger hovering over our table, I sit down.
Me: Hey dude, why is that girl drinking your beer, if you wanna fuck her just buy her one. (made sure she heard as I wanted to blow her out, I hate gold diggers)
She just laughs and looks at me, then leans in and points at me.
GD8: You're cute....come dance with me.
Me: No thank you, I'm a terrible dancer. (trying to DLV myself so she'll leave me the hell alone)
GD8: That's alright! I'll teach you!
(I decide why not have fun with this girl and let her make a fool out of herself so I start doing the robot while sitting down)
Me: See....I'm terrible.
Her: ::Laughs and does another robot routine::

I start thinking maybe I misjudged her, she seems moderately cool.
Her: Aww come dance! Please!
I could have danced with her and had a SNL within moments, she was obviously very drunk and her BT was spiked beyond reason. But she felt sleazy, I felt a mental itch in my pants indicating STDs!!
I blow her off, closing her off by turning to my friend and talking to him. She get's sad and hovers over us a bit, then says something along the lines of..
GD8: You know you could have gotten laid tonight..

Then walks away, we all break out laughing. Nope, I wasn't wrong about her. She was a sleaze.

Later my real wing calls, tells me to meet him outside the club as he doesn't know the bouncers and wants to go to a real club.

We walk outside and meet up with him, a few hugs and slaps on the back as we all meet and a group of girls walks past us, then one of them fixes eyes on me and turns her head as I pass
HB7: Why hello baby....

I continue walking when I see another guy pull her hand annoyingly and she winks at me. Whats up with girls tonight?

We head over to B5 to check out the girls, since that place is target rich and few obstacles to think off. I don't understand, but it seems like everytime I go in there the guys all have this AFC mentality about them even if they are with the hottest girls in the hottest lounge club in town.

We nod to the bouncers and they open the line for us, I hear my name called and I look over. It's HB9 from a few weeks earlier standing outside smoking.
I walk over and she throws herself into a hug, I give her one and then let go.
Me: Stop smoking, doesn't suit you.
HB9: Hey!
Me: Anyway why is it I always run into you here? Are you stalking me?
HB9: Laughs
Me: Anyway I'll be inside, catch you later.
(I need to stop myself everytime I see her because her older brother is my childhood friend...I have my limits)

At the bar, I get a text from HBFacebook. "I'm at Solon with my girls...wanna come? Where are you?"
I take a step back and concentrate on responding while my wing approaches two HB9's from the behind at the bar, leans over and says
V: Girls...we're about to leave, wanna join us? (he does random shit all the time)
They look over at me and I'm standing there like a chump writing a text, but they latch onto him, he just laughs and shakes them off. Sometimes I hate his direct game and willingness to walk away.
"Sure, we'll come over" I respond....I really want to see this girl in real life.

My friends agree and we walk back outside and across the street to where she is, and we get in line. What I hate about this place is that it's the only place in town the bouncers don't know me, so we have to wait. But eventually we get in.

I text her to meet me by the dancefloor bar, and I stand there leaning back waiting for her. She comes over shyly with a friend and I just break into a smile and walk over.
Me: Hey girl! Finally. Come here. ::pull her into a hug and let go with my one hand and keep her in a side hug, she leans in::
Obstacle: Hi..I'm R..::extends her hand::
I shake my head and pull her into a hug.
Me: No hands....(Scrubs line I use a LOT)
Obstacle laughs and grabs a hold of me and leans into her friend, "I like him!"
Me: Of course you do. :grin:
HBFacebook: We're just about to go out to smoke...come with me?

I look at my wing, he hates smoking as much as I do, he jumps in.
V: You both smoke? Damn.
Obstacle: No not me, I'm just going with her.
V: Oh thank god you don't smoke, hey let my friend take your friend out, we can hang in here. I'll even dance...just this once.
Obstacle: ::laughs but doesn't want to separate from her friend::

My wing and friends stay inside while I go with the girls outside to smoke, HBFacebook tries to grab my hand as we walk, but I pretend not to notice and walk with her, she leans into me a bit. Kino compliance on her part is great.
We sit down outside and I go straight into 'best friends' they say no and told me they work together and this is the first time they party together, just ran into each other earlier at some party. I stack into a DHV, but get interrupted by the former obstacle, now HB8 since I have her full support and she likes me.
HB8: But I've heard all about you. ::winks then leans into her friend and tells her she likes me, again::
HBFacebook: ::blushes::
Me: ::Put my hand on HBFacebook's thigh:: Shh, it's not awkward unless we make it awkward...:Very Happy: (another Scrubs line I always use)

We end up talking for 5 minutes outside where I do a bit of push pull with my target, while her friend constantly qualifies her for me. Guess she really wants me for her friend. I don't disagree.

We all go inside and sit down where my friends pulled a table, and I mini-isolate her by the table, her BL is open towards me and with her face inches from me, she doesn't flinch as I look her in the eyes, and she doesn't break eye contact, just smiles at me. Her BT is skyrocketing. I know I had to k-close, but didn't want to with they guys here, because some of them were drunk and being idiots. I felt like I needed to isolate her further for more comfort.

My wing reads my situation and pulls my friends away to the bar. Her friend also tells her she's going upstairs to the dancefloor, and HBFacebook decides to stay with me.
I work kino, hand on leg, hand on arm, sidehug and I stack into the photo routine. This is golden, nothing I can do to mess this up.

She wants to find her friend to see if she is alright, so we both go upstairs and she again tries to hold my hand, but I don't allow it. I wanna make her want it more. We don't find her friend, and we're in the middle of a dance floor now, so I take her hand and lead her back out. At first her grip is lose, but then she 'latches' on and squeezes back. I start walking slower, making her take a lead and ends with her holding me and leading me downstairs. Make it appear she's working me. I have eyes on me.

My friends return and my driver wants to head home soon, so I isolate her for a smoke outside and give my driver a hand signal telling him "10 minutes".
I work comfort building outside, or try to as everyone wants to come over and high five me or talk to me. I had a lot of friends out tonight. She gets a little uncomfortable since she's 18 and not used to a guy like me(she had said so), someone with this social proof. However I think it works for me also, she start giving me dinner bowl eyes.

At this point my driver is getting annoyed and tired, so he comes outside to tell me we're leaving. I look at her thinking, damn...I'm shit broke and I can't take a taxi, I can't leave that up to chance. So I take her hand and decide to move into a quick kiss routine, but then all of her friends happen to come outside to smoke and come over to meet me.

I disarm all obstacles quickly by hugging them all, and then I see my opening for a kiss is gone. She's really self conscious with her friends surrounding us and my friends waiting on the side line. I take her arm and pull her in and tell her we'll talk tomorrow and give her a hug.

I get a text message from her later that she was really sad I went away so abruptly. I did some texting before going to sleep, we're all good for a day2.


What you did well
My frame was great the whole night, I had girls opening me.

What you did wrong and could have done better
Micro-calibration off, not used to gaming someone this young. Not all the same rules apply. Not be tied down with a driver, should have asked him to spot me cash and bounce her somewhere else.

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