Rewind button violation theory by Hengman and Cro

"Rewind button violation theory is a theory of jumping back from either seduction or comfort to attraction. NEVER do this.

Alright, a good friend of mine just mentioned this in a recent FR.

He went from solid attraction to solid comfort, then he jump the gun and went back into attraction. Why is that?

Well, from how I see it, if a girl is already attracted to you, there's no need to go back into attraction. However, what happened was that he went back to showing disinterest. She kind of took this in and freaked out because she thought she wasn't good enough for him anymore.

So, as you can see, the rewind button violation theory is a rule for what not to do. Once you've built attraction, why jump back? Don't jump back but continue plowing and plowing and plowing. Once you've jumped back, you've violated the whole process of getting her. From there, it's VERY hard to jump back into state of where you were because you pressed the reset button. And when you do this, she'll freak out and think that she has lost you. When that happens, you lose your frame and lose value. And by value, I mean A LOT of it because it might of made her think that you're just not interested in her at all.

Here's an example from his FR:
"I go for a glass of water since I'm parched, and when I return she's putting her coat on.
Her: I'm leaving, my friends are at
I see from her BL that I'm not coming with, I guess she doesn't want me around with all her friends.....why?
Me: What about being adventurous ?
Her: Not tonight, I don't feel like it. See you later. ::walks off::

My friend walks in "hey Cro...people are wondering why you and her are so close tonight....she has a boyfriend at home..."
Suddenly it all makes sense, she was never comfortable when in the other set and I was with, just in my set and away from her friends.

I had her in C3 and working into S1, could have made her cheat on that guy without even knowing about him, but I pumped the state up from being 'interesting and spiking her emotions' to.....frat boy.....rookie mistake. I messed up.
I tell my friend "guess he's not that good of a boyfriend...she's been hanging with me the past two nights" and walk off."

By regressing from C3, where he had built a solid emotional connection to his target and a perfect rapport, to making her qualify herself, moving back into Attraction, he severed the emotional connection and DLVed his target by making her go back from their nice 'connection' to having to proof herself all over again to him."

- Hengman & Cro