"We're moving too fast"

In a response to a question on the VA forums, I started to think back to my experiences with this phenomenon, and came up with something that makes sense to me now, something that back then baffled me seems clear as day.

I have found that when girls play the 'we/you are moving too fast' card, it often means you didn't play the comfort game correctly. You stimulated her attraction switches, seduced her, pumped her BT and frame and gave her value...but no comfort. I did this a few times as a rookie mistake. My comfort was no good.

Then when she says 'we are going too fast', it's her mind trying to rationalize WHY she likes you so much, even though she barely knows you. It's a form of buyers remorse, even though no sex has been had.